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Also an observation I Have made now that I Have scrolled down and read a lot of the comments. I see a reoccurring topic. Most of the comments by guys seem to be similar or corroborate each other in some way but yet even the most outspoken guy remarking about how much worse they think online dating is for men vs women will still acknowledge that it is not all cake and ice cream for women either. On the surface this might not seem essential or conclusive in anyway but it is a common theme I see every time gender is discussed from the web to the news to real life...that women have absolutely ZERO ability to empathize with guys. ZERO............................ I see guys on here, like myself, opening their spirits upward talking about how their self esteem was destroyed by being totally ignored by the opposite sex and the single female answers are to either attack them or just blow off what his concerns are and talk over him with their very own perceived issue that in their mind is worse............................. Hereis the thing tho. While obtaining a lot of emails from guys you do not find attractive could most certainly be annoying (tho, I'm not sure what's so challenging about using filters or just deleting the offending messages) you can't possibly sit there with a straight face and objectively think that is on the same equivalent plain of sucking as being ignored like you're invisible. The notion that those 2 problems are equal is totally laughable and makes it clear the people who do believe they're have no objective perspective of truth outside of their particular egocentric head and notions.................................. I mean I'm happy you've had it so good in your life which you literally cannot get what it's like to feel like you're imperceptible but scroll down and read what us men are telling you point blank over and over again and give that little light bulb over your head an opportunity to twist itself in. You might learn something. Other than that In The Event That you are a female and every post by a man here only angers you and makes you would like to phone the guy a pitiful failure or "creep" then I propose to you that you may be a sociopath.........................attempting to get a line of periods between each paragraph so this website doesn't reformat it into another wall of words like my last post.
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