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Also an observation I Have made now that I Have scrolled down and read the majority of the comments. I see a reoccurring theme. Most of the remarks by guys appear to be similar or corroborate each other in some way but yet even the most vocal man commenting about how much worse they believe online dating is for men vs women will still admit that it is not all cake and ice cream for women either. On the surface this may not appear essential or conclusive in anyway but it is a common theme I see every time sex is discussed from the net to the news to real life...that women have absolutely ZERO ability to empathize with guys. ZERO............................ I see guys on here, like myself, opening their spirits up talking about how their self esteem was destroyed by being totally ignored by the opposite sex as well as the single female answers are to either attack them or just blow off what his concerns are and talk over him with their own perceived dilemma that in their mind is worse............................. Hereis the matter tho. While getting a lot of e-mails from men you don't find appealing could most certainly be annoying (tho, I'm not certain what's so challenging about using filters or just deleting the offending messages) you can't possibly sit there with a straight face and objectively think that's on the same identical plain of sucking as being ignored like you're imperceptible. The notion that those 2 problems are equal is totally laughable and makes it clear that the folks who do believe they're have no objective perspective of truth outside of their particular selfish head and ideas.................................. I mean I am glad you have had it so good in your own life that you literally cannot grasp what it's like to feel as if you are invisible but scroll down and read what us men are telling you point blank over and over again and give that little light bulb over your head an opportunity to screw itself in. You might learn something. Other than that if you're a female and every post by a man here only angers you as well as makes you would like to phone the guy a pathetic loser or "creep" then I propose to you that you may be a sociopath.........................attempting to put a path of periods between each paragraph so this site doesn't reformat it into another wall of words like my last post.
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