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The extreme degree of male societal weakness and female power in online dating is actually leading to a prevalent, toxic level of bitterness against women throughout the society. I'm sorry to say but this animosity is well deserved. Never before have so many guys needed to come to face to face with the absolute hypocrisy and completely unreasonable nature of our female-imposed courtship rite. It's definitely changed how I think about women. I am also finding that I have much less tolerance for the lop sided nature of male-female interactions. MGTOW is starting to make lots of sense. This is not difficult or unjust, it's many magnitudes beyond what could be considered remotely sensible. It's horrifying. It is funny because online dating is most likely going to destroy feminism. Backpage Escorts Near Me Miklavik Manitoba. All these really are the experiences guys have which color their interpretation of public debate. Women whining and moaning about "equality" given this group of social norms is truly horrific and impossible to take seriously.
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Also an observation I've made now that I've scrolled down and read the majority of the remarks. I see a reoccurring theme. Most of the opinions by guys seem to be similar or corroborate each other in some way but yet even the most vocal guy remarking about how much worse they think online dating is for men vs women will still acknowledge that it is not all cake and ice cream for women either. On the surface this may not seem critical or conclusive in anyhow but this is a common theme I see every time sex is discussed from the web to the news to real life...that women have absolutely ZERO ability to empathize with men. ZERO............................ I see guys on here, like myself, opening their souls upward talking about how their self esteem was ruined by being completely ignored by the opposite sex and also the only female answers are to either attack them or simply ignore what his concerns are and talk over him with their very own perceived dilemma that in their head is worse............................. Here's the matter tho. While obtaining a lot of emails from men you don't find appealing could most certainly be annoying (tho, I'm not sure what is so challenging about using filters or just deleting the offending messages) you can not possibly sit there with a straight face and objectively think that's on the same equivalent plain of sucking as being dismissed like you are imperceptible. The notion that those 2 problems are equal is completely laughable and makes it clear that the individuals who do consider they're have no objective perspective of reality outside of their very own egocentric head and ideas.................................. I mean I'm happy you have had it so good in your own life which you literally cannot get what it is like to feel as if you are invisible but scroll down and read what us guys are telling you point blank over and over again and give that little light bulb over your head an opportunity to screw itself in. You might learn something. Other than that In The Event That you are a female and every post by a man here only angers you and makes you would like to call the guy a pitiful failure or "creep" then I suggest to you that you may be a sociopath.........................trying to get a path of intervals between each paragraph so this site does not reformat it into another wall of words like my last post.
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