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I agree with most of your sentiments...really, almost all of your thoughts. But I feel like once you get to a specific age, online dating is a necessary evil. I am also in my early 30's and have been doing it for a little over a year, after coming out of a longterm relationship. I'd rather not have to go down that road, but started the journey optimistically. Ha. Backpage escorts nearest Southbank! I can't honestly say, it blows. However, as we get older and settled into our own lives and livelihood, the individual person population dwindles and (at least where I live) it's very difficult to meet up available men 'naturally.' Maybe TMI, but if my ovaries didn't have a shelf life, I Had just be doing my thing and waiting for Mr. Excellent to magically appear. Unfortunately that is not the case...

My daughter is in the same boat with you. She'll turn 30 in October and is happily single. I guess since she moved from Illinois to Florida for her job, meeting a great guy became more difficult, only because she left her family and friends behind. Those are the very individuals who would have been fixing her up. She's tried the various dating sites, but nothing ever came of it. Yes, she'd love to be in a connection, begin a family one day. But she is also happy with the independence of being single. When she least expects it, she'll meet the right guy. If she is happy, then I am a happy mother.

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Just as I was going to stop doing it because I was .... tired of the dating game .... Lenny pinged me. After two weeks of e-mailing back and forth, we went out, and have been together ever since. Going strong and striking 12 years in June. We're best friends, excellent lovers, began a business together, bought a house, write Chez Us and travel the world. I'm happy I didn't turn it away quite yet that one day in May 12 years past, or I 'd have never met my soulmate, and probably would have still been overly busy, and single at 47.

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Post the RIGHT location in which you live in your profile....not a area where you used to live, where you need to live, or where your friend lives. It seems like basic common sense, but deliberately posting a city, state or nation where somebody doesn't dwell does occur. In case you're contacting someone on a dating site, and you also tell the individual you live someplace different than what you have posted on your own profile, it is sometimes a real turn off, particularly if you live in another state or nation.

She nags her buddies to find someone for her, but so far she's not yet been fixed up once. I used to wrack my brain looking for someone suitable (I happen to believe a younger, less powerful man would be ideal) but now I'm wracking my brain for ways to get her to try an online dating service. To begin with, it'd enlarge the universe of contacts beyond the six degrees of separation we live in. For another, the Anne we're looking to match up with someone suitable is limited by history - who she has been, not who she can still become.

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