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Online dating is absurd for men. My day begins with rejection and ends with rejection. Women are overly worried about a mans outdoor look that it blinds them to everything else. I've been doing online dating for a couple of years now and have met some women, but a lot of the messages I receive are from women I am not physically attracted to. After speaking with buddies women seem to ignore every man, so who are they speaking to? Internet dating isn't only harder for guys, it's much more difficult. It's men doing the great majority of work and women sitting there filtering thru and rejecting all the nice guys that she complains about not existing.

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