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Additionally an observation I've made now that I've scrolled down and read the majority of the remarks. I see a reoccurring topic. Most of the comments by guys seem to be similar or corroborate each other in some way but yet even the most outspoken man remarking about how much worse they think online dating is for men vs women will still admit that it is not all cake and ice cream for women either. On the surface this might not seem significant or conclusive in anyhow but it is a common theme I see every time gender is discussed from the net to the news to real life...that women have absolutely ZERO ability to empathize with men. ZERO............................ I see guys on here, like myself, opening their souls upward talking about how their self esteem was destroyed by being entirely blown off by the opposite sex as well as the only female answers are to either attack them or just ignore what his concerns are and talk over him with their very own perceived dilemma that in their head is worse............................. Here's the thing tho. While getting a bunch of emails from men you don't find appealing could most certainly be annoying (tho, I'm not sure what's so difficult about using filters or just deleting the offending messages) you can not possibly sit there with a straight face and objectively believe that is on the same identical plain of sucking as being blown off like you are invisible. The belief that those 2 problems are equal is absolutely laughable and makes it clear that the individuals who do consider they're have no objective perspective of truth outside of their own self-centered head and thoughts.................................. I mean I'm glad you've had it so good in your own life that you literally can not comprehend what it's like to feel as if you're imperceptible but scroll down and read what us men are telling you point blank over and over again and give that small light bulb over your head an opportunity to twist itself in. You might learn something. Apart from that In Case you are a female and every post by a man here only angers you as well as makes you want to phone the guy a pathetic loser or "creep" then I suggest to you that you might be a sociopath.........................striving to get a line of periods between each paragraph so this website doesn't reformat it into another wall of words like my last post.
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